Monday, June 30, 2014

Vignettes a Great Way to Add Interest in a Garden

l love flower gardens--especially when they have beautiful drifts* of color and foliage, plus just the right amount of whimsy to give a feeling of warmth or even a chuckle to visitors who spot whatever scene or vignette the gardener has created. One of my favorite things about gardening personally is finding fun ways to sprinkle in something which might be inspiring to others, such as the nearly hidden words in the Ghost Weigela bush below (you can click to stop it when you spot the message):

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Less is More
Now this may seem a simple task--toss a bauble here or there--but to me, the art of adding stories, artistic structures and/or hardscaping to the garden is a fine one indeed. Too much of anything can be just...too much, and I can certainly point to things which really work and things I'm needing to re-work in our own garden--even after nearly 25 years--so I feel this challenge must just be a constant part of the gardening hobby, and I've learned to simply enjoy the journey.

No Pink Flamingos in Nebraska
I remember a past coworker of mine--who knew I was into gardening--saying something about imagining pink flamingos all over the place. I laughed and thought "that would not be my taste at all--what about me says 'pink flamingo'?" 

Okay, there is that one thing...but this comment had been made to me several years before I played FiFi Flamingo in an Acappella Omaha show...hmmm...maybe it's the actual reason I picked a flamingo out of all the options we were given in the exZOOberance script (I can't back that up--it really just occurred to me as I was writing this--but maybe that flamingo was buried in my psyche and stepped out for an appearance)!

If you're a fan of the pink plastic flamingo, I get the goofy humor (especially in Nebraska, where there are no pink flamingos actually living here) and I appreciate the history, but a gardener has to make choices in lawn decor--as in any decor--and, especially at that time, I was very anti-colorful-characters-for-the-garden. I wanted all the color to be coming from the flowers. That said, I've since found plenty of whimsy to sprinkle throughout our pathways, but my eye is usually drawn more to unique artistic works over kitschy characters or junk sculptures...but I'm not gonna lie--we do have a few fairies in a moss green patina and a couple gnomes/cottage fronts in a rustic brown patina. Somehow the muted tones make these characters less...loud! The fun part about these tiny sculptures is they help set the scenes where stories of the garden's playful inhabitants can be imagined by passersby (insert pixie dust here). 

A Passing Whim
When plants are young or just leafing out in the spring, it's easy to overdo the whimsy. My recommendation is not to put everything out at once. As plants mature, there are more opportunities to have a fanciful fairy peeking out from under some perennial or--like we just did--back a gnome and his home into a bush and act like he's the caretaker of the northeast garden, where his cottage can be found--this year. That's the other thing about whimsy or any type of moveable garden decor. It can be used as a filler for areas which didn't bounce back as fast as others from our cold Nebraska winters, so these little characters might move around from year to year...maybe even from spring to fall. 

Many times, I'll also use potted annuals to brighten up places which look dead, need height variety or are not coming back as fast as other surrounding plants. I've had some years where I've put out almost every container I could get my hands on, and others where several planters don't even get used for one reason or another. 

Know When to Fold 'Em
While we gardeners often get attached to certain pieces, it's always good to remember less is more.  A person doesn't need to put out--or even keep--everything they've ever gotten for their yard.

Occasionally, my husband Bret and I will go through our storage shed and donate several things we haven't been using, so others might have a chance to enjoy them. This is another way to avoid having too much stuff in the garden.

When you really need it, however, it's great to have a healthy selection of possible decor solutions, so donating old pieces is also a chance to pick out something new to refresh a floral walkway.

What Will Your Stories Be?
I've added an example here to help spark ideas, but it really boils down to personal choices anyway, so as you're looking through garden stores, art fairs or garage sales this summer, think of what eye-pleasing or storytelling vignette you might be able to create with some treasure(s) you've found. Imagine how it might delight a friend or family member who stumbles upon it as they're walking down your garden path, and please feel free to share your pictures of such below. After all, gardening is the most fun when it brings joy to others as well as the gardener! 

Today's Quote:
(excerpt from God's Garden)
"The kiss of the sun for pardon,
  The song of the birds for mirth--
  One is nearer God's heart in a garden 
  than anywhere else on earth."
  -- Dorothy Frances Gurney

*Beginning gardeners often plant one of everything or have a circus of different varieties (cultivars) of a particular species--like five different sizes/types of coral bells, daylilies, hosta or fill-in-the-blank which don't particularly complement each other. My recommendation is to plant no less than three identical perennials in a drift and--depending on how big they get--five, seven or nine would probably be better. Once things start growing and flourishing in their new environment, it's truly worth the initial investment.




Sunday, June 1, 2014

What Excellence Looks Like...and What it Doesn't

As I write what was supposed to be May's blog, many life lessons are coming to mind. First, I'll share I missed my deadline! For many reasons, this past month has flown by and these past few days, I kept saying to my husband Bret, "Don't let me forget to write my blog." 

Always Look for the Lessons
Life Lesson #1: asking others to help us remember things is not the best idea. They are rarely invested in whatever we're needing to remember and rather than saying "No, you need to come up with a better solution than to count on me for this", they often politely agree and hope you'll remember it despite their forgetting to remind you...or they'll remind you once--like the minute after you've asked them--and feel the favor you've asked of them has been fulfilled! 

Life Lesson #2: stick with what works. While I was lamenting forgetting to at least start a blog yesterday--to ensure it showed up under the month of May--I reminded my husband that when he asked me earlier in the week to help him remember something, I promptly called home and left a reminder message on our answering machine. When we got home, there was the reminder and he did it right away. Why didn't either one of us think to leave a message-to-self in this particular case? Aaack--the frustrations of being human!

Life Lesson #3: learn to let it go--especially if it's only important to you. I do realize, in the scheme of things, this is VERY minor. I don't get paid for this blog. I have no idea who reads it. I hope it's amusing, informative, or somehow helpful to whoever takes the time to look it over. It's really an exercise in keeping my writing and editing brain intact while I'm between jobs looking for where I'm meant to be next. However, I do include my blog link among other online project links in a lot of my correspondence regarding employment, so this inconsistency in my blogging is sure to be discovered--bummer! Waa-waa--poor me...okay, now I'm done!

Life Lesson #4: beat the deadline if possible. When I was a kid, I remember my mother saying she was always afraid to put anything off because she might get sick and not get it done. This is how she taught me procrastination can be harmful. I've read that procrastination comes from the fear of not doing something perfectly. I've had that disease, but have learned over the years it works better to do the best I can in the time allotted and then the deadline ends the project. When it's something like this blog, I must admit, I don't allow a lot of time between starting it and when it needs to be finished...usually a day--especially at this time, when I'm needing to be diligent about the way I'm spending my time. However--noting how missing this deadline has affected me--perhaps I need to rethink my current mode of operation!

The Irony is Not Lost
The funniest part is, I had planned to write my blog on what excellence looks like...it doesn't look like this, but sometimes I like to think I hit it--so when I don't, I try to learn whatever lessons God's trying to teach me through my failure.

In the Presence of Excellence
What prompted this particular subject is my husband Bret and I just attended a congratulations party for one of his staff members--Jay Beyer--a top-notch third grade teacher who recently was named one of the 2014 Alice Buffett Outstanding Teacher Award winners. This is a prestigious honor which includes a $10,000 check among other things, so no small feat--congratulations Jay (Pictured L to R: Omaha Public School Superintendent Mark Evans, Jay Beyer, Investor Warren Buffett).

Bret and I are very tickled to have such recognition come to a teacher at Wilson Focus School, where Bret is principal, and Jay has many qualities of excellence he shares with students every day. When I asked Bret what excellence looks like in relation to Jay Beyer's teaching techniques, he shared a few strong habits:

1) He holds all students accountable no matter what their background might be. 
2) He has strong procedures and routines.
3) He works hard at always being a positive role model and encourages active participation using songs, quotes, affirmations, etc. 
4) He plans affective lessons to achieve curriculum goals and uses collaborative techniques for student engagement. 
5) He uses data to help ensure they all succeed.

Excellence Often Begets Excellence
Bret added that many of the teachers at Wilson Focus School share such qualities of excellence, and he is very proud of what this first focus school in the state of Nebraska has accomplished in its six years of existence...which brings me to another question: what does excellence look like in relation to Wilson Focus School? Here are just a few accomplishments to note:

1) It has longer school days and a year-round calendar to avoid the loss of instruction which can occur with the more typical extended summer breaks.
2) It has a strong after school Enrichment Program which offers students supplemental education with various academic, career-related and/or high interest courses from which to choose.
3) It has a S.T.E.A.M. emphasis, enlisting Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts and Math curriculum to enhance the Leadership, Technology and Communication focus of the school.
4) It is the only elementary school in the Omaha Public School (OPS) system with full AdvancEd accreditation, a level of excellence for school improvement in which Wilson received the top "exemplary" status in all seven areas of measurement.
5) It offers a 1:1 ratio of students to technology, and they are able to use digital tools to find solutions to challenges in a real world way.
6) It has been nationally recognized as an Apple Outstanding Program school.
7) It uses numerous positive behavior supports throughout the school decor, curriculum and relationship-building strategies to create a successful learning environment.
8) One Nation, Indivisible--a research group from Harvard University--has recognized Wilson Focus School as a national model for promoting socio-economic diversity in a positive way.

Lessons Learned
What does excellence look like? In these cases, it seems that studying best practices, using them consistently, and working to serve others in a way to benefit all parties involved helps create excellence. 

What doesn't excellence look like? I'd say it doesn't look like missed deadlines, displaced responsibility and procrastination, so I have obviously not "hit it" this month! That said, I hope missing a self-imposed deadline for a personal project is the worst thing I can blame myself for this year! If you're still reading at this point, I'd love to hear a story of yours where you either hit or missed excellence. We can all learn from both!

Today's Quote:
"Excellence is the gradual result of always striving to do better."
Pat Riley